Category: Jurisprudence and Rulings (Fiqh)
Fatwa#: 37348
Asked Country: United States

Answered Date: Apr 13,2017

Title: Hurmatul Musaharah Query


URGENT!! I have read the establishment of harmah al musahara, and I am sure that I have committed this act with my step mother. Can repentance solve the issue or I need to go talk to my father and my step mother?


In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.


The ruling and repercussions of Hurmah al-Musaharah are delicate, complicated, and harsh. Each case should be considered on an individual case-by-case basis. Thus, we advise you to send us a detailed account of the encounter between yourself and your step-mother before a ruling is issued.[1]


Nonetheless, you should engage yourself in constant Istighfar and Tawbah expressing remorse over your actions.


And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Abdullah ibn Mohammed Aijaz

Student Darul Iftaa
Baltimore, USA 

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.



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